Chapter One
Eva
The one who finally said “yes” must have had some sort of intuitive
foresight, or an astrologer’s sense of days which were to be important,
because she scheduled herself to get her first hearing aid on her
fifty-ninth birthday. Her name was Eva Durrant, nee Eva
Carruthers. She had not it made a point to do anything in
particular on her birthdays for over three decades, let alone something
mundane and, she thought, rather inconvenient. In truth, while
she did harbor expectations for the hearing aid, they did not go so far
as to divide the world into before and after, a vista before and a blur
behind, and indeed she felt the actual acquisition of the device would
be an annoyance. So why, when she was asked by the audiology
receptionist what day she was free, did she name the 15th?
Her birth in 1974 had been a hectic affair, but not overly strenuous on
the one whose burden mattered most, her mother, and were her life ever
subject to scrutiny by astrologers or other mystics who trust in a
connection between one’s circumstances of birth and one’s circumstances
for the rest of one’s life, they would not be without confirming
material. Her life to date had been exciting, but without great
emotional mileposts, good or bad. Her birthdays during childhood
were portents of this, being both in their preparation and their
execution lavishly wrapped bundles of fine ado about what was,
essentially, nothing. She grew up grateful to her parents for
giving her nice, tasteful birthdays, and never really wondered why they
bothered. She was more grateful for other blessings they gave
her. She was grateful to be enrolled in a private elementary
school with an emphasis on the arts, because everything else seemed to
her to lead toward business, and she could not fathom spending her life
in the business world. She was grateful to her parents for having
another baby when she was seven years old, as she might otherwise have
been killed with attention. And she was grateful that they waited
until she was in college before getting divorced. That was the
big one. She knew most marriages didn’t last so long, unless they
were destined to last forever, and in the world Eva grew up in that
never even seemed like a possibility.
Eva loved her parents, and that was why she never complained after they
stopped throwing her parties. She didn’t like the fact that her
birthday had engendered an argument or two between them, but aside from
that, she didn’t miss it. Life had moved on by then anyway; its
location had moved to New Hampshire, and its finacial state had moved
to poverty. As a child Eva never saw this as a move down, no more
than she saw New Hampshire as a move up, although in hindsight she
recognized it as such and saw that it was fortunate the two moves had
canceled each other out. Eva loved the social scene in New
Hampshire. Her parents loved the work opportunities; it was only
later that they hated the housing costs, and the poverty, and the fact
that making friends was no longer as easier as it had used to be.
Once again, one thing canceled out another, and even after she had to
leave her private school, Eva found her friendships far more adaptable
and rewarding than she ever had in West Virgina. Even as their
lives fell into a lower-middle class squalor, Eva was developing
herself for adventure. She therefore spent her birthday with the
friends she’d made in school, and sometimes elsewhere. If she
remembered that it was her birthday, they would make it a point to do
something they would not otherwise have done. It didn’t matter
what, or whether it was allowed, as long as it was new. And if
she didn’t remember, no matter—there were worse ways to spend a summer
day than bumming around with people who liked you.
It continued this way well into high school, and even after the second
move came—this time to Boston. Here her family lived in genuine
squalor—you can keep your inauthenticity. Her parents seemed to
have a knack for changing residence at the worst possible time for Eva
and her brother, socially speaking, and when they could least afford
it. But this, you might say, is the sign of dynamic people—not
the sort who move when luxury affords it and social status calls for
it, but rather when trouble’s shadow is coming and a major change just
may be the way to escape. That they failed to escape did not dim
the importance of this lesson for Eva.
She herself made it a point to issue change for herself whenever she
sensed an approaching rut, whether or not it seemed advisable from the
point of view of her schooling, her budget, or her later career.
And so, when her parents started asking her, now a senior in high
school, to find a night job and help pay the bills, she recognized the
warning signs. Instead of obliging them, she found a night job
and moved out of home. She stayed with her boyfriend, an
arrangement soon to be replaced with her boyfriend and his new
girlfriend, to which Eva’s own new boyfriend arrived just in time to
keep jealousy and hard feelings from smashing everything apart.
There were then four of them sharing the rent for a two-bedroom
apartment, but as always, what monetary burden this relieved became all
the heavier domestically. Eva and her ex-boyfriend remained close
by necessity. Eva’s new boyfriend got her old boyfriend’s
girlfriend a job at the outlet store where he worked, and eventually
suspicion began to fall in their direction as well. Once this
stage of the drama arrived, Eva knew she was headed for depravity and
had to get out. So it was that at the age of twenty, Eva moved
back in with her parents.
Her twenty-first birthday was a fine affair. Not one to rock the
boat either by over- or under-celebrating, Eva went out and got good
and drunk with all her favorite acquaintances. This alone would
have been innocuous, except that Eva had, moreover, the additional
responsibility of celebrating her admission into the Boston
Conservatory, which had been finalized after hearing back re her
theatrical audition only days before. At her best friend’s
urging, she decided to organize a musical play with all her friends on
the instant; she took all those who could be enticed up to the
apartment over the bar, owned by a bartender who happened to be present
in her birthday party, and picked out selections from classical drama
for each person to sing. Twenty minutes of sotted collaboration
later, she and her dramatically inclined friends had established a
loose plot connecting all these selections, and the whole group went
downstairs and treated the patrons of the bar to an unrehearsed
rendition. Thus ruffled many collars, but rather than take a
roomful of hints, Eva led her team of performers out to what she deemed
a culturally superior venue: Central Square. There, they got
through about two thirds of the numbers before being forced to stop by
police, and it was only Eva’s self-induced return to sobriety that
saved her and her friends from being detained for the night: her
instincts to duck out of trouble having kicked in appropriately yet
again.
Eva did not celebrate her birthdays after that. She was at the
conservatory, for one thing, and for another she did not trust
herself. She saw her mildly rebellious childhood birthdays as all
having led up to that drunken caberet in the Square, and did not wish
to take that trend any further. She recieved gifts on her
birthday for a few years, but as her issuance of reciprocal gifts to
her acquaintances was sporadic at best, these eventually stopped
coming, and Eva’s birthday was forgotten. This did not disturb
Eva, who felt no less a person for having no birthday to speak
of. She was in fact rather too busy dealing with reality to worry
about temporal constructs. In addition to having a rather heavy
financial burden to bear, what with putting herself through school
without parental support, Eva was devoted to an onerous chore of her
own devising: discovering her true artistic nature. When it came
to light that perhaps she didn’t really have one, she left the
conservatory, moved into the bottom floor of a three-decker house with
some of her friends in the theater scene, and tried to get them to hook
her up with work, deciding that if she was not destined to be a
performance artist, at least she was well suited to be part of their
culture. This phase of her life was awkward and largely
unrewarding, although it did lead to a romance or two that she couldn’t
honestly regret having. Eventually, upon finding herself in a
whole new kind of rut, she decided to move once again, and settled down
in Toronto.
Once there, Eva had to start over at assembling a group of friends, and
found it harder than before. Her social scene transformed;
formerly a social butterfly all too willing to flit from place to place
and engage anyone who happened to be around in conversation, she became
more reserved and more dependent on the few people she knew in the
Toronto area. Oddly enough, as this happened she began getting
better acting jobs. Eva was used to aspects of her life balancing
out, so she made no effort to return to her old self and instead threw
herself into serious acting. She no longer associated with
musical theater. None of her friends in Toronto even knew her
birthday, and she never asked them theirs. She eventually became
an assistant house manager, and it was through the public functions
associated with this that she met Donnell Cassoway, the man she would
marry three years later. Before they could get around to that,
though, Donnell insisted that they move to a more reputable part of the
country. Eva was once more confronted with her familiar balancing
effect; she accepted gracefully, applied for and received Canadian
citizenship, and moved to Vancouver.
Because the theatrical scene was not so active in Vancouver as in
Toronto, Eva was forced to compete to remain in her chosen
vocation. She accepted this reality grimly. Her male friend
(she had outgrown the term “boyfriend” only twelve years after
outgrowing the term “girl”) was comfortable in this, his city of choice
where he was employed as an investment banker. (His initial
forays into investment had been infusions into small theaters.)
She was not so comfortable, but this, naturally, was the trade-off for
success, and in three more years she was the perpetually uncomfortable
house manager for a decently lucrative theater.
There she remained, now married, until she began to feel the pangs of
danger once again. Boredom was about to set in, for the first
time in Eva’s life. She didn’t really know how to react. It
was not just complacency in her job; it was the fact that she did not
fit in on the West Coast. She had lived near the Atlantic all her
life and while she would not claim to have felt its briny spray, she
felt that the people here were different. She was having trouble
finding friends. She was finding herself with nothing to do on
Friday nights—nothing unproductive, anyway. She was in fact
guilty of blaming the wrong change for this; it wasn’t the West Coast
that was boring her. It was the fact that she was now
thirty-four. If she had remembered her birthday and how it used
to jog her out of her routines, she might have taken some temporary
remedy from it, but that was far from her mind. Eva saw only two
choices. One was to move yet again, but she felt guilty for
taking that road so many times, even if the first two times had been
her parents’ doing. The other was to get out of managing and into
owning. Eva asked her husband in decreasingly subtle ways to help
her out in this endeavor. He was reluctant to stick his neck out
but of course could not remain in the house with someone continually
asking for help without giving in eventually. Since Donnell
Cassoway was not the abandoning type, that is what he did. And
when Eva was finally in charge of her own theater, heavily into debt,
she discovered that there had been a third possibility all along, and
she sold the theater and got out of the business in preparation for
having a baby.
Donnell was a loving father and he was happy to pay off his wife’s
debts and take care of her for a while. However, he was not a
compassionate businessman and he was not willing to go himself into
debt. The Cassoways had a fine house, a classy car, and fine
trimmings in most corners of their lives, and all of these continued to
cost money. None of them had anything on the baby, however.
This child, one Robert Bertrand Cassoway, was born with a
cardiovascular condition that drained what remained of the happy
couple’s pocketbooks more quickly than anything they had previously
possessed. Eva was distressed. On the one hand, she had a
child, and who could put a figure on that? On the other hand, she
was out of a job and approaching ruin, and in truth such a thing not
only similarly evaded valuation, but affected her son’s potential
upbringing. There was a danger of actual misery on the horizon,
with no compensating growth.
Another husband might have pointed out that getting to know little
Robert, educating him and caring for him would be a growth experience
in the most literal sense—for Robert, anyway. Donnell Cassoway
had a more serious bent to his ponderings. The eventual result of
all this worry was the sale of the house and car and trimmings, and a
journey across Western Europe, little Robbie in tow. Not the
result one would have expected? Perhaps not, but Eva was used to
the mildly unexpected controlling her life, so it was only natural that
she took it upon herself to hand the unexpected the reins now that it
seemed to have left her alone.
They had a rough time. France was cruel and confusing, even for a
couple that thought themselves savvy. In Belgium Eva had her
purse stolen. In the Netherlands she found work, despite the
conditions of her visa, and ran into trouble collecting. In
Poland Donnell contracted the Polish flu (about the same as any flu Eva
had ever run across, but still a major pain to any traveler with a
child). In the Czech Republic they made new friends, enjoyed the
antiquated atmosphere, and feel behind what little schedule they
had. In Romania they ran out of money. Stumbling back
through the intervening countries, they retreated, browbeaten and
wondering in an anxious way whether they had broken the law at some
point, to their friends’ home in Kladno. They were able to make
an arrangement at that point, whereafter they holed up in the basement
of that residence, the main body of which was shared by six other
people, and did clerical work for their keep. It was enough of a
step down that Eva stopped even thinking of her life as a progression,
at least in terms of careers. Her whole mind was dedicated to
worrying about the health of her son, and trying to arrange a way to
get enough income to move elsewhere—she didn’t even have enough room to
regret coming there in the first place, and neither is it clear that
she would have if she did.
With all this to occupy her, it should be no great surprise that she
did not realize Donnell was at his breaking point. He informed
her that they would return to Canada at once, or would return
separately. Eva fell into something she had never known,
depression. She lasted there for only a week, and then managed to
pull herself together and arrange transport back to Vancouver, but this
intervening time of despair clouded long and heavy on the married
couple’s relationship. Donnell told her more than once during
that week that it was over. He was going to leave her and start
anew. Neither of the two believed it, but to their surprise,
seven weeks after their humble return home, it turned out to be
true. Donnell would have nothing for himself but a fine home with
all the trimmings, while Eva was not interested in trying to
rebuild. Her way was utterly antithetical to slipping back in
life and taking the very same route by which to return. She was a
woman who would typically slip one way and another, always striving for
something new and unlooked-for to come out of every little setback,
always expecting to break even, but at least to break new ground.
And so he left her. And she was not slow to find her silver
linings.
Eva moved back to Boston, Massachusetts, in the summer of 2012.
She was humbled to retrace her steps in this instance, so soon after
doing so in Europe had led to stagnation, but she remembered fondly the
character of the great city, and more importantly her parents still
lived there, and were surprisingly willing to take care of their
grandson. They did not resent the way Eva had left them all those
years ago; in fact they had been secretly hoping for it. Eva had
a grander time back in Beantown than she ever had expected. Her
reunion with her parents was not awkward—they actually had pleasant
afternoons together, and shared the same taste in wine. Eva was
glad to find that some of her friends still lived in town, and even
some of her parents’ old friends from the era were still around to
tutor her on her advance into middle age. Boston was colored anew
by Eva’s experience, and of course by her child, who was growing up
tough and surly but smart, and whom Eva considered a healthy challenge.
She went back into not managing but acting, and found it a splendid
renaissance for herself. What she had lacked in her youth, she
found, was not artistic inclination, but the salt of the earth.
It was her added age and experience that made acting easy and enriching
for her. Auditions were something she no longer took personally,
unless she was feeling personable enough that day that even rejections
would be fruit for conversation. When she landed roles the
directors were often impressed to hear that she had managed and owned,
and wondered why they were hiring her instead of the other way
around. She shrugged and said “Life is a rollercoaster.”
But the way she said it made them doubt she meant it, and of course she
didn’t. For her, a more apt metaphor would be a tour bus, always
on the level, never particularly high or low, but never stopping except
when there were attractions to be had.
By the age of forty-five, Eva was a well-known actor in the Boston
scene. She had traveled in spurts, around the coast and once back
to Europe, although she was much more prepared and her son stayed at
home. Unsurprisingly, this trip ended up being far less
memorable. Eva never joined a touring company, but she did travel
to places like Philadelphia and New York to make appearances and
occasionally to act. She followed a simple rule: when she was in
high demand, she made high demands of those around her. When she
was not, she handled her own business just fine. While this made
certain of her friends call her unpredictable, the fact was that she
was more predictable than most, and she felt her way of living made
life go smoothly. It went so smoothly, in fact, that when she met
the man who was to be her second husband, they courted for only two
months before tying the knot. And amazingly, everybody came.
Eva’s life was transformed by her marriage to Michel Durrant, but in no
way was this transformation domesticating. She would say to her
friends that she had been amazingly domestic before without realizing
it. After Michel entered her life, she was constantly throwing
parties, attending parties whether or not she was invited,
overspending, angling for more money, and depending on friends who had
once depended on her. If she had not been inspired by some higher
force in how to conduct such indecencies with perfect decorum, her
popularity would surely have gone down. Eva somehow managed to
remain the master of her realm, though, the pillar of her social
circle. She became an accepted source of moral decline in the
lives of those who knew who, for whom she had once been a source of
personal character. She had a way of making them not care one way
or the other. In the middle of all this, trouble developed
between Eva and her son, and it led, over the course of many confusing
months, to Robbie’s going back to Vancouver to live with his
father. Eva developed a way of saying that it was all for the
best, because no sane person would wish her life on a child.
These changes took place, tragically as you might look at it, because
her husband irritated her. Although she loved him dearly, he wore
on her nerves much more than placid Donnell had, driving her at times
across the city or beyond with his insistent opinions or nattering,
half-drunken behavior. Those who knew her and retained some
sensibility whispered that they would be apart within a year.
They were on the right track, but underestimated Eva’s high threshold
of degeneracy. She lasted three years with Michel, and they were
years filled with countless dramas best forgotten. Nothing in her
life was new for that time; as an adult she had ceased to grow, and
seemingly happiness seemed no longer important for Eva—but the truth,
which she would not discover until years later, was that her
relationship with Michel Durrant and all the chaos it potentialized was
merely a long, messy train ride to the next phase of her life, one she
could not have obtained without getting a gory look at the scenery in
between. Eva separated from Michel when she was
forty-eight. Their separation unexpectedly became a long-distance
one when Michel moved back to Lyon, his home for the first thirty years
of his life. In competition with a city like that, Eva didn’t
even feel the heart for a divorce. Instead she moved forward.
She set her own standards of success and set about achieving them, and
in so doing left her old facade of success behind. Living a
semi-decadent life in which her appearance was tarnished and
transformed into all there was of her had made Eva sick of appearances
altogether. She gained an enlightened perspective on
make-up. She started applying for a new class of roles in the
theater; that of the mature, wisened, lovelorn but strikingly realistic
woman whom it wasn’t possible to play one-dimensionally. Eva had
her secret, though: she wasn’t lovelorn. She never had
been. Eva had gone through life’s highs and lows without having
to really experience them on full blast; she was educated, but not
scarred. She was everything it took to be an exemplary
actor. And so she did the unexpected; she left what limelight she
enjoyed, finding it artificial, moved to the suburbs, and began, at
last, being a genuine, fulfilled person.
And this is what she was still doing when she turned fifty-nine.
Reasonably content, Eva was still landing roles now and then, still had
a list of personal contacts which was, if no longer long, at least
still strong, and owned a number of things which made her happy.
Not least was her single-floor house, which made up in class what it
lacked in spaciousness. She possessed a cabinet of crystal
diningware, a baby grand piano, a backyard with a gazebo over which she
had grown vines—and the pride of her collection, a round, rotating
bookcase, made of thick mahogany, that sat in the corner of her living
room and shelved all the plays and works on acting and theater she had
ever been moved by. On those uncommon occasions when she felt
encumbered by the world’s constant company even while alone in her
home, she would stand in the snug little corner behind her bookcase,
spin a new compartment of it toward her, and hide. Others of her
station had their favorite comfortable chairs, but Eva had a strong
back for her age, and she most loved to read while standing up in her
little literary refuge—leaning, perhaps, against a joining of two walls
covered lovingly in reproduced Victorian tapestries. To her home
she brought her coworkers for cast parties, when no better venue was
available, and they would perform ludicrously transmutated versions of
their scenes in the gazebo, weather permitting. And at times she
had over her close friends, whose numbers were still quite respectable,
and her brother, who lived in town, and the occasional gentleman who
solicited her company and managed to do it in a respectful way.
Eva still spoke with Michel now and then on the telephone. She
had a face-to-face international calling plan, but didn’t feel like
letting that much of him back into her life. He was for those
moments when she needed whimsy, like a old favorite drug now taken in
medical doses. She also had her mother for a good, solid kind of
therapy, the kind none of her friends could give her without the veneer
of humor or sarcasm. Her father had passed away during her
“profligate period,” and indeed this had contributed to the trouble of
the times. Eva’s mother, however, was a fast stanchion at the age
of eighty-three, a shining example of how to accept changing times
gracefully without altering one’s real character. She was living
off securities her husband had invested in and was still trading stocks
by day. She claimed to love Boston more than anything, with Eva
identified as a very close second whenever she dared to inquire.
Eva felt a link to the past when she was with her mother. Only
while she was at her mother’s house did she understand how important
having that link to the past was in anchoring her life.
It was her mother who had recommended the hearing aid. Eva’s
hearing was not poor, but it had degenerated over the course of a
lifetime spent amid noise, and her genes did work somewhat against
her. For a strong back and a healthy heart, she said, she would
not hold a little hearing loss against her mother. Still, her
mother insisted that she look into it. She had a favorite brand;
they made it with a special coil that enhanced the signals from
telephones and headphones, which would help Eva out greatly in her
work. Eva made the time to shop around that summer, during a lull
in her career, and when her decision was made and it came time to
schedule her fitting, the date August 15th popped up in her mind; she
happened to recall that it was her birthday, and on a whim she went
with it. Eva intuitively felt it would be rejuvenating, in a way,
to experience a renaissance in one of her five senses on her birthday,
to have the hearing of a twenty-nine-year-old at the age of
fifty-nine. She had not celebrated her birthday in thirty-four
years, but now, in the last year of her fifties, the thought struck her
that it was imperative to do so once again. Soon, all claim to
being middle-aged would be gone from her. Despite the fact that
both men and women were living longer, the numeral six at the beginning
of a person’s age still marked her in an uncompromising way. Like
it or not, Eva’s age was about to become a venerable figure, so she
might as well celebrate it in that last year of freedom and take a
little pride in being fifty-nine. Maybe if it went well enough,
she would make herself a pin to read “59 and Holding.”
These thoughts only skimmed, however, in the briefest way through Eva’s
mind as she walked through the streets of downtown Boston for the first
time with her hearing aid in place, hints of a vibrant social scene
she’d once known wafting back to her from blocks away. Just as it
was easy to forget what a city was like in the old days, it was easy to
forget what it sounded like when sound was plentiful. Eva stood a
moment to appreciate the memory.
And it was then that her intuition paid off.
Chapter 2
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